Need Some Motivation?
Motivation tends to be a seasonal thing. Most of us have spurts of motivational periods and long stretches of lackadaisical existence.
Here’s a few sites to help you stay motivated, organized, and in-charge of your life. With the year 2008 right around the corner (gulp!) it’s time to take a look in the mirror and decide [...]
Self-Blame
Self-blame. Blaming oneself for not taking action or not predicting an outcome of failure. We’re all guilty of this from time-to-time. Chronic self-blame can lead into depression and drastically impact your life.
When you have an unresolved issue it’s extremely easy to then look at yourself and pick out your own personal [...]
What I call “T-Day”
T-Day is the day that I get my daughter for visitations. Tomorrow is my T-Day for Christmas. One week of pure fun with my kid. I’m taking vacation all next week so that we can party like rock stars. Well, maybe not quite THAT but still hoping to have some fun and relaxation.
I’ll try to [...]
Anthony Robbins Quote
Keep your heads up gentlemen. Life is hard. You HAVE the will inside of you to be who you want to be and get what you want out of your lives.
“If you do what you’ve always done, you’ll get what you’ve always gotten.”
Think about the power of that statement. What are you [...]
For The First Time…
For the first time in 10 years I’m spending Christmas alone. Is this a bad thing? I don’t think so. Since 1998 and on, I was either at a friends place, married, or with the families of people I was dating. This year it’s just different.
The key factor this year is [...]
A Struggle Of Divorced Fatherhood…
Dating and having a child. Or Children.
It isn’t easy. In the old days it was the stigma that single mothers faced alone; men think I have baggage and I’m undesirable. Women, the tide has changed. You’re not alone. The premise is the same. We’re broken toys and no one [...]
Business Travel and The Single Father
Traveling regularly as part of your job or profession adds an extra bit of challenge to the mix. Not only do you have to worry about work, reservation, flight schedules and the weather, you also have to worry about your child, their welfare, who they will be with and when you will see them next. [...]
The Things We Forget
The other day I was spending some time relaxing and thinking about “stuff.” It suddenly popped in my head that I don’t really remember ANYTHING about my marriage. I’ve only been divorced for a few years and I’m not really that old. In hindsight, I don’t really have anything positive that I can remember. My [...]
Much Ado About Everything
Have you ever caught yourself worrying about everything? Life, love, family, friends, kids, work, your sports team? I discovered that no matter what happens I worry about things, particularly about love and relationships. I’m sure that much of it is due to my past and things that have happened to me, but I’ve swung from [...]
The Giving Spirit…
It’s the holiday season! It’s time, once again, for food, spirits, fellowship and gift-giving. No one knows this more than those with children.
What plans do you have for the holidays? Have you started your holiday shopping for your kids yet? It’s easy to procrastinate!
Written by Jason – http://www.DivorcedDadsOnline.com