Nov 10 2008

How To Be A “New” Dad

So there are many challenges to be a dad and there are probably countless ways to fail.  At the same time, there are countless ways to be ahead of the curve and take charge of your relationship with your children.
Many fathers are kept out of the loop on their kids’ lives.  Some by their own [...]

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Oct 16 2008

Why You Pay Child Support

Child support is often jibed by those who are paying it.  Sure, it sucks to watch hundreds, if not over a thousand, dollars get deducted from your account each month.  Even so there are a multitude of reasons that the non-custodial parent must pay child support and I think everyone agrees that both parents should [...]

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Mar 21 2008

Gift Ideas For Boys and Girls

Kids love gifts. Think back to the time when you were young and how much you enjoyed seeing gifts under the Christmas tree, or piled up on the table for your birthday. Gifts are a wonderful way to show your kids how much you love them and appreciate them.
What is a gift?Gifts don’t [...]

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Feb 12 2008

What If You Don’t Like Yourself

Earlier today I was engaged in a conversation with a friend and we touched on how I’d changed several behaviors over the last several months. Now my friend didn’t state if the behaviors noted were good or bad, just that they’d changed.
My reply was simple, at least to me. But as I said [...]

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Dec 23 2007

A Struggle Of Divorced Fatherhood…

Dating and having a child. Or Children.
It isn’t easy. In the old days it was the stigma that single mothers faced alone; men think I have baggage and I’m undesirable. Women, the tide has changed. You’re not alone. The premise is the same. We’re broken toys and no one [...]

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Dec 10 2007

Business Travel and The Single Father

Traveling regularly as part of your job or profession adds an extra bit of challenge to the mix.  Not only do you have to worry about work, reservation, flight schedules and the weather, you also have to worry about your child, their welfare, who they will be with and when you will see them next.  [...]

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Nov 21 2007

The Child Support Delimna

Child support is one of those nasty little surprises that come out of divorce, along with it’s cousin, Alimony.  Child support payments can sneak up on you if you haven’t prepared for it and you don’t want to miss them.  Accrue too much back child support and the state can and will prosecute you and [...]

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Oct 22 2007

Balancing Work and Home Life…

The Problem
Balancing work with a good home life with your children post-divorce.  (This is possibly an issue while still being married.)
The Solution
That’s what we are here to find out!
It’s something we all deal with once we have a family of our own. The balancing act between performing at work and performing at home.  Sometimes performing [...]

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Sep 1 2007

Dating after Divorce

 
Dating after divorce is one of those touchy-feeling subjects that I’ve talked about with several other divorced men.  Some of these men have at least one children and some had no children.  Dating after divorce is a much different animal if you have children or not.  Let’s run down some of the major factors that [...]

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Jul 6 2007

Tips On Divorce

Again, to reiterate, I am not a lawyer, nor will what I say necessarily stand true in every case, in every state, in every situation. With that being said…
Divorce is a tricky situation. Not only is it an emotional roller coaster it can be financially painful as well. Through talking with [...]

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